Women have become ultra independent in the last couple of decades . We have our own finances, our own homes, our own lifestyles. We have worked hard and have broken into industries that were male dominated. We are visible now…we are the ones in charge and for the men left behind we are again the enemy . Instead of maybe looking within, these men blame us for their woes.
The lack of respect being shown towards women is everywhere. Girls report the abuse they suffer at the hands of boys at school. This is too often sexualisation of young girls not equipped to deal with such things and done by boys who's only sexual encounters are via Porn Hub.
And boys listen to this. They see their future as bleak, and they too blame women even as they don't know why.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
Women and men both have their own forms of discrimination to face. We both have obstacles to overcome. We both have goals in life we strive to reach
But we should be looking at the youth of today and see what's going wrong with them.
I think in part they get this attitude from hard-core porn so readily available via their mobile phones. Studies have shown that boys are both accessing such images earlier and that porn acts in the same way as hard drugs on young minds.
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Women need to raise their daughters to know they aren't just sex objects, that they can do things without either taking their clothes off or needing a man to pay
And men need to step up and talk with these boys..tell them girls are to be treated with the respect they demand is shown to them. That there's more to girls than their bodies. That their own success or failure isn't the fault of anyone else. That they need to work through their own problems, their own insecurity and not blame womankind for all their woes.
And then there's the usual suspects such as Andrew Tate…who reinforce such awful stereotypes and pander to the male ego by villifing women.
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The dehumanisation of women via porn can't be stressed enough imo.
Boys see these portrayals and think all women are out to get whatever they have.
And then there's such things as TikTok. Girls and young women do themselves no favours on such platforms imo. They are often seen as greedy, self absorbed ppl who care only for what a man has rather than wanting a relationship with him albeit not a long term one.
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Social media is a huge factor in so much that we now face . People are free to voice the most odious of opinions without consequence. Men who have failed relationships with women write horrendously misogynistic claptrap that younger men believe as a universal truth.
